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Topic: Do we even have moral dilemmas anymore?


Topic Posted by: cordero68
Date Posted: Tue Jan 17 14:59:15 2012
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Reading alot about universities lately, up until recently the university was a place where moral guidance was delivered, and students were not "clients" who needed to be satisified.. a sharp reversal from earlier when students willingly submitted to the elder influence.  In fact, with so much abundance of students today, I am not sure why universities feel the need to not fluster any of their charges, since they can still find other ones to take their place.

In any case, as a partial link to the robbery thread up above, it seems our North American society, and the values it exports globally, have gone to pot.  I was born in the mid 70s so I don't have first-hand knowledge of what life was like in the 60s, but I believe my conception of this time to be as good as can be attained without yet being here to see a part of it firsthand.  People love to make fun of the dutiful housewife of the 50s, the "square" kids of the mid 20th century and how oppressed everything was.  It's true that to some degree it was oppressed, and some people got the worst of it.  However, there is also much to be admired in that 1950s model which was a cycle that somewhat repeated in more mature but still innocent 80s, after a revolutionary period in the late 60s and tense 70s.  Maybe people were tired of the Vietnam war and wanted to forget, and behind the scenes Reaganomics laid the foundations for the horror show of an economy we have now, but there was still some vestige of innocence I remember in the late 70s and 80s.. a much brighter, less stressful vibe than that which permeates our physical environment now.

In a few short decades, we have gone from one polarity to another.. I am sure that many people, if they were sent to a period 45 years earlier would be classified as having a mental disorder.  Today, the amount of people who play videogames is astounding.. many never read.. in Canada, the hockey arena has become a cathedral.  People generally do what they like and sarcasm is the order of the day.  Drugs, violence, cities stripped of copper wires and anything of value in a depressed economy.  Our mental paradigm has shifted so extremely, but not in a good way.  For those of you who are in their 50s, 60s, or older on this board, how have you seen the changing of times throughout the decades?

I don't recognize the North America I was born into 35 years ago.  Maybe I am romanticizing it to some degree but people have changed completely.





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Posted by: Mrs. B. Harris
Date posted: Wed Jan 18 20:17:46 2012
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I don't have time for a long comment, but I would like to say that based on the posts below, there are some really intelligent people on this board.

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Posted by: Elaine
Date posted: Wed Jan 18 10:15:49 2012
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I went to college in the late 60's, early 70's. Moral guidence?  Not sure if you'd call making the women population follow different rules then the men would qualify. Women living in the dorms had to actually 'sign out' in the evening saying where they were going, with whom and what time they expected to be back. We also had curfews..11 p.m on week nights, midnight on weekends. How many kids would live in the dorms now with those rules? When we ate supper in the university dining room, women had to wear a skirt or dress while the male population was free to wear ANYTHING from cut off jeans, dirty sweatshirts and other disgusting apparel. All I can say is thank goodness for women's lib and equal rights. Oh yes, this university was a public institution, not a private, religious one.

Our society has made a change and not for the good, IMO.   We've become a society of greed, I've got mine, you get yours and if for some reason the odds are against you, tough. The poor, the elderly, ...what ever public help there is,... too much.  We can't work for the common good of society any more. We have to spend an ungodly amount of money on wars, the military, or in the words of Eisenhower(R), the military/industrial complex. The war drums are beating to attack Iran. We need wars to prop up the defense contractors, more military spending on redundant weapons while education, health care and security for our elderly fall by the wayside.

I believe the American people will wake up and prevent the dismantling of SS, Medicare and other social programs. We have to work together to keep society from becoming a 2 class system...the very wealthy and the very poor.

 

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  • Well said as usual. ITA. ~i&b
  • Of course there were bad things. What you describe sounds like the alienated thoughts which Sylvia Plath described in 'The Bell Jar' (undervalued in its place of the classics). I think what I was driving at is that as bad as things may have been in some ways (i.e. The Vietnam War), looking back, I feel like society was better in many ways, overall. Of course, some people were in a situation that they felt more liberated as the decades past, but I feel like there is some truth to the saying 'the good old days'. cordero68
  • Back in my 'hayday', we didn't have instant access to news, opinion, and blogs. These days we're inundated with 'news' and opinion from the internet, to 24 hr. news, and 'specialized' news organizations like Fox News and MSNBC. I think society has changed due to our access to all kinds of media and blogs. Times change, we can't turn the clock back nor would most of us want to. I'd never want a daughter of mine to go to a school that required her to wear dresses, sign in and out of their dorm, and be her 'parent' by proxy. Like Ingy has said, the 50's and 60's have been 'glamorized' in many ways. When I was growing up in those times, I didn't understand all the 'problems'. Sure I look back at a carefree youth, not worrying about jobs, careers, enjoying rock & roll, poodle skirts, saddle shoes LOL, and not totally understanding how society was repressing so many in our society from minorities to women. I'm glad times have changed. The idylic life I enjoyed in the 50's was only an illusion and a state of time. Kids today will view their childhood as a great time and will yearn to return to the good ole 2012. Elaine
  • Oh yes, another influence and great change...here I am, in a very rural part of Michigan having a discussion with you Cordero. I only 'know' you through your various posts and opinions yet I feel like you're a valued aquaintance tho I don't know how old you are, your life experiences or even what part of the country you live in. In the 50's and 60's, who ever in their wildest imagination would have envisioned being able to have a discussion with somebody in another part of the country so quickly and easily. Ideas and values are exchanged at the click of a mouse. I love to watch ME tv, especially the Mary Tyler Moore show, Dick Van Dyke etc. I feel THIS is my youth and think, what would I give to 'go back' but it's only a good memory...an illusion looked at through rose colored glasses. Like I said, kids today will 'yearn' for the good ole 2012's when they reach our age. Elaine
  • oh god.. my message erased again. i HATE when that happens. anyhow, I was going to say rural Michigan is beautiful.. it is a unique part of the US, and was featured in Country Living 6 years ago. I remember studying about Michilimackinac in history last term. cordero68

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    Posted by: ingyandbert
    Date posted: Tue Jan 17 16:25:45 2012
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    I'm 51.  I remember the '60s and '70s quite well.  I'm not sure what you mean by ''recent'' with regard to universities but trust me, there was no ''moral guidance'' going on when I was in college in the late 70s to early 80s.  The thought alone gives me a chuckle.

    But you're right that many things were different in earlier decades (and others not so much).  From what I've seen, 50-60 years ago society in general was more polite and well mannered.  And although fewer people attended college, they seemed better educated even with only a high school diploma. Those were good things.  But there was also segregation, the House Un-American Activities Committee, and things like that.  Those were huge stains on our society that still affect us today.

    Back in the '60s, the Vietnam War was going strong.  I used to watch the news coverage every night on tv when I was a kid and it was not whitewashed like it is today.  Grainy film clips showed soliders running around trying to find cover or firing their guns, explosions, Vietnamese running for their lives, people getting killed, dead bodies lying on the ground. Not only was the war itself ugly but so was the debate among an increasingly divided nation about whether the war was unjust and whether the U.S. should pull out and come home. 

    The '70s saw economic trouble but on a social basis it was a ''live and let live'' decade.  People continued the trend begun in the '60s toward experimenting with various forms of self-expression, with varying results. It was a fun era, IMO. Things seemed to really be opening up but then along came the '80s.  Suddenly, the so-called Moral Majority, Jim Bakker, Jimmy Swaggert and their ilk, and AIDS were front and center.  Much of the social progress of the '70s seemed to come to a grinding halt. 

    Things began loosening up again in the '90s but now here we are again with a ''moral minority'' trying to turn back the clock by denying evolution, gutting education, loosening environmental and workplace regulations, stirring racial and class tensions, and generally being intolerant and obstructionist. 

    So in the end, I guess the more things change the more they stay the same -- just combined in a different way.

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  • Thanks for the intelligent post. Your previous reply to me on the same subject made me investigate to what degree behind-the-scenes politics, which I was unaware of as a kid in the 1980s, were influencing what seemed to be a more innocent decade. (more inside)
  • Agreed. Have you ever seen the movie Boyz in the Hood (from the early '90s). One of the scary things about it is how normal the neighborhood looks. There's a real contrast between that and the level of violence and hopelessness depicted. Interesting film well acted by some very famous actors before they were big. ~i&B
  • I did see that film about 15 years ago. The thing is, these days, I am guessing those kinds of neighborhoods no longer look as normal. Infrastructure is breaking down and not at all shy about showing its age. The internal has reflected externally. Camden, N.J - across from Philadelphia - is one of the absolute worst examples of neighborhoods literally rotting away (photo inside). cordero68
  • Very well said, Ingy. ITA entirely (PS - I was between the ages of 1 & 10 in the 70s, but I agree, that was a damn fun decade :-)...........DebS
  • Thanks, Deb. Cordero, you're probably right. That photo is so sad. In other parts of the country, those same properties would be highly sought after. ~i&b

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